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Intimacy has
an interface.

A critical reader on dating, markets, and platform power.

Research project · 2026

Thesis 24 / 31

Refusal is not innocence.

Doing better on one mechanism does not make a platform clean.

SETTLEMENT
$240K
USERS
~7K
FILTERS
Jun 2020
ASSESSMENT
Partial

Context

A counterexample is useful because it proves alternatives exist, not because it identifies a morally pure company. Better privacy practice can coexist with security failures, limited remedies or other forms of exclusion.

Evaluating platforms mechanism by mechanism avoids replacing criticism with brand loyalty. The question is not which company is good, but which specific decisions reduce or reproduce harm.

Argument

Jack’d, acquired by Perry Street in 2019, paid $240,000 to approximately 7,000 users in a settlement with the New York Attorney General over a security flaw that left private photographs accessible. Scruff and Jack’d disabled their ethnicity filters in June 2020, following Grindr, and critics noted at the time that removing a filter is the minimum available action rather than an intervention in the sorting itself. The independent alternative is better on the specific mechanisms named here and is not thereby clean.

The settlement concerns conduct that preceded or overlapped the acquisition, while the later privacy choices deserve recognition on their own terms. Holding both facts together prevents a common analytical mistake: treating one improvement as evidence that the whole system has been repaired.

Evidence

MeasureValueWhat it shows
SETTLEMENT$240KSettlement concerning exposure of users’ private photographs
USERS~7KApproximate number of users affected by the flaw
FILTERSJun 2020Ethnicity filters disabled across both applications
ASSESSMENTPartialAn improvement on one mechanism, not absolution

Key finding

Jack’d, acquired by Perry Street in 2019, paid $240,000 to approximately 7,000 users in a settlement with the New York Attorney General over a security flaw that left private photographs accessible.

Implication

Ethical refusal must be evaluated mechanism by mechanism, not treated as innocence.

Citations & further reading

  1. Office of the New York State Attorney General. (2019). Settlement with Online Buddies, Inc. (Jack'd).

    REGULATORY SETTLEMENT / CRITICISM

  2. Henderson, T. (2020, June). Removing the ethnicity filter is not fighting racism. Pride.com.

    REGULATORY SETTLEMENT / CRITICISM